Many people think that the main erogenous zone in the guys body is the phallus, forgetting about a hidden place like the G-spot in men. It is a huge intimate weapon that is actively involved in all love relationships. Few remember this point during a passion attack, but its stimulation allows the partner to achieve a strong orgasm and shorten the healing time for further bodily pleasures.
How to find a D-spot in a man
Curiosity is caused by the fact that many young people themselves do not even know where the exciting G-spots of men are, in fact, there are those who are completely unaware of its existence.
The desire for sexual gratification encourages guys to uncover the secrets of their own bodies on their own (or with a loved one). At the same time, they definitely like not only the result, but also the process of finding the cherished point.
Although the male genitalia is outside, the position of the male G-spot is quite curious - it hides in the depths of the pelvis between the pubic bones and the rectum, where the ligaments are firmly attached. This zone represents the connection between a young person’s reproductive and urinary systems.
The Ji point is penetrated by veins and arteries, tightly connected to blood vessels located directly in the male genitalia. It resembles chestnuts or walnuts in shape. This area grows for 20 years, weighs 20 g, and occupies an area of up to 4 square meters. see Make it difficult because it is located under the bladder at the top of the urethra. This can be done through the anus, penetrating 5-7 cm deep. If you feel a slight bulge on the front wall of your abdomen, you can be sure that your search was crowned with success.
It’s precisely because of the seclusion of that place that the guys doubt whether it’s worth studying at all. A stereotype firmly ingrained in their heads is that only same-sex lovers give access to the anus. In addition, many men are very reluctant to agree to such an attempt because they are afraid of unpleasant feelings or simply do not want to talk to their partner.
Male point stimulation methods
It is not enough to find the coveted place in the body of a lover. It is also important to master proper G-spot stimulation in men.
There are two ways:
- External.To do this, lightly press or squeeze the erogenous zone between the scrotum and the anus. Manipulations are best done with the thumb and forefinger after lightly wiping the pressure area. When a man is aroused, the sensitivity of the Ji point increases, so if pressed firmly, it can interfere with ejaculation. You need to move carefully and smoothly. In addition, you should closely monitor your partner’s reactions. If it becomes apparent that the process is not pleasing to him, it is better to stop the procedure immediately.
- Internal.This method gives the guy unforgettable and vivid emotions, but many young people disagree with this, believing that the girl perceives it as a manifestation of a tendency to unconventional love. The point of the method is for the woman to carefully insert her finger into her partner’s anus, then carefully look for a small bump and further stimulate it. In this case, sharp and strong movements should be avoided. All operations must be soft and fluid. Lubricate your hands with a special lubricant to avoid possible injuries and injuries. It is more comfortable for the girl to perform internal stimulation while moving backwards. In this position, your hands remain free, allowing you to freely massage the melancholy G. The amplitude of the pressure should not exceed one movement per second. Thanks to this man, they provide a bright and unforgettable peak of enjoyment.
Preparing for stimulation
If partners decide to try to try the secrets of stimulating a cherished point in a person, in order to get the most vivid feelings possible, they need to be prepared for the process:
- First you have to prepare yourself. Ideally, you should clean your rectum with an enema or laxative. This gives a more attractive look to the intimate massage.
- Before finding a G-spot in a man, partners need to gain complete confidence, otherwise the young man will not be able to relax, so stimulation will not cause joy. On the contrary, it is very likely that the girl’s movements will only cause her unpleasant and painful feelings.
- The girl needs to prepare her hands: remove a long manicure, make sure it is gentle and soft, otherwise it may accidentally damage the inner mucosa, leading to the development of inflammatory processes in the body.
- Adherence to hygiene rules is essential. Wash hands thoroughly or wear disposable medical gloves. It does not hurt to use a special lubricant. After stimulation, it is impossible to touch the male or female genitals because microorganisms remain on the skin, which can trigger the development of an inflammatory process.
- It doesn't hurt to give your partner an erotic massage, from head to butt. This allows the guy to relax and get the most out of exploring his body.
- One has to choose the situation that is most comfortable for him. The best situation for this is the supine position and the girl between her legs.
- Movements should be weak but rhythmic. You have to keep them until the guy feels the brightest orgasm. It is important to observe your partner's reaction.
- Shortly before orgasm, you should start looking for the place where the male G-spot is located. Otherwise, the lady runs the risk of killing the sexual mood and deterring the desire to continue doing so.
How to massage the Ji point
Proper stimulation is light rhythmic pressure, back and forth movement, or gentle circular manipulation. But don't make it a stuck button. The process should be enjoyable and the guy shouldn’t get painfully excited about the bed.
G-spot massage can reduce the duration of the refractory phase in a man. Thereafter, the traditional time to restore an erection is reduced from 40 to 60 minutes to an almost immediate appearance.
The guy’s magical multiorgasm is guaranteed, but it’s worth remembering some important rules to keep stimulation from coming back.
No nails
Long nails only in adult movies do no harm to the partner. In reality, such a weapon can cause a lot of unpleasant and even painful sensations, because penetrating the rectum with a sharp marigold can damage the mucous membrane, and it doesn’t seem pleasant to anyone. The nails should be cut off at the root.
lubricant
Lubricantis a special lubricant, usually water-based. There should be a lot when stimulating the male G-spot. The best is a special lubricant with an anesthetic. It is used specifically for anal sex.
The substance reduces the unpleasant sensations characteristic of such caresses. But it’s worth remembering that the painkiller only starts working 10-15 minutes after applying the lubricant, so you don’t have to rush.
Gear
In order to cause less discomfort when inserting a finger into the rectum of a partner, it should not only be inserted, but should be screwed in gently and slowly. This movement gently spreads out the wrinkles that frame the anus and can help reduce discomfort. This word is just worth remembering to maximize the pleasure of stimulation.
Remember the games
For men, the D-spot is a zone that can be stimulated to achieve incredible results. If you convince the guy to put a special sex toy in your anus, the effect will be amazing. First, you can use anal beads. They must be inside during all intimacy. Once the orgasm has developed, they should be taken out one by one, but you should not stray from the rhythm of the guy’s movement. It gives her fantastic pleasure.
And the most important thing is hygiene
Hands should be washed thoroughly before and after the procedure to avoid infecting infectious diseases. In addition, it should be recalled that when a lady’s finger examines the most secret places in the male body, it is better to keep it away from the genitals, as the intestinal microflora is very aggressive towards the human genitals.
Some sexologists associate the main male erogenous zone with the female because proper stimulation leads to unforgettable pleasure. Although it is easier for young people to find a D-spot than for girls, the problem lies in a very remote place. But if the miss manages to persuade her partner to make such a bold attempt, the title of grandmother is guaranteed to her.